Your Questions Make Orgasmic Hot

It's time to take sex out of the dark. Send your steamiest queries.

I started Orgasmic because I love being in deep dialogue with my readers. I blog daily on Medium, writing mostly about sex and sexuality, but sometimes about society, parenting, feminism and environmentalism. Be sure to follow me there as that is where I write everyday.

Orgasmic is where I really get to know my readers, and they get to know more of me too. My favorite way to do that is by responding to your steamy questions.

There are no stupid questions, no questions that are too remedial or too simple. The truth is, most of us received our sex education from people who thought enjoying sex was sinful, who were afraid of their bodies, their cravings and their proclivities. Sex education came with a hefty dose of fear—fear of STIs, fear of getting pregnant, or getting her pregnant, fear of odors, textures and bodily fluids.

Fear is not hot.

Sex is hot.

Desire is hot.

Questions are hot.

So, send them our way.

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When you submit a question to Orgasmic, I am going to answer it publicly, for all of our readers. Be sure to refer to yourself the way you want me to refer to you.

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Here are some of my favorite questions…

• How do I navigate the drop in my arousal when I’ve cum but he hasn’t yet?

• Why does x turn me on? How do I ask her to give it to me?

• What if what I want is taboo? How do I negotiate the terrain between my desires and what is “right?”